850 may be or may not be cheap, it is hard to say.
For example, what if your gf wants to combine household income instead of AA after marriage? Another possibility is she does not wants to rent out her house. What if that is paid off and she lives free in that? Her cost may be lower than that amount. Think about materials for food, two people costs less than two times of one.
Anyhow, what I am trying to say is that you set the rules without flexibility. Money is especially sensitive to a second marriage and you should invite a discussion rather than decide one solution.
The other thing I feel uncomfortable is your tone of saying " does anyone live in a big house" ? Come on, yours is 300K + house so it can not be called luxuray anyway. Be modest, because we are Chinese. I hope you are just upset here because some many online try to trash you. If you talk like that to any girls, no body likes that. |
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发表于 2013-12-6 08:05:14
