谁有可以跟印度阿三斗争的经验和好办法吗？

胖胖的贴证明老印做事的方式：觉得你有用时马屁拍得啪啪响，没用时绝不浪费一点感情。其实咱们也想拍马屁，多少还有点不好意思太露骨。老印这么做估计是和他们的文化有关。等级分明的社会，拍上欺下是习惯。　他对别人狗气时，也别看不惯，可能的话戳一戳他。　他想欺负你时，对他狠点。你狠，他就不敢了。　因为他自己心里没有平等。　

Good Points!

引用第20楼游客于2011-09-01 15:23发表的 回 13楼(胖胖168) 的帖子 :
觉得你有用时马屁拍得啪啪响，没用时绝不浪费一点感情。...............。等级分明的社会，拍上欺下是习惯。　　

That's exactly what is happening in China.

ip204，借用一下儿您的口吻哈：我觉着吧，您才真行，不分场合，逮住个机会就要咬胖胖一口，不这么做你特难受吧？

胖胖168

谢谢这位朋友。

她同我并不在同一个公司工作，只不过业务上有联系而已。如果论职称的话，她的应该在我之上吧，因为是五大咨询的头衔。

她父母前一阵子从印度到美国来，回印度临上飞机前，专门给我打电话告别，我才想起来，我在班上忙的底朝天，平时没时间去看她父母，但是临走之时，至少应该亲自去告个别。

我在班上，同我打交道的印度人，多了去了，不过都不是我们公司的，大家处的非常融洽。我有看法的老印，直接被我排除，工作上有事时，可以通过别的老印来运作。志同道合的人，不论国界，如果有缘在班上相识，肯定会走近，而不是走远。

^_^ 心态问题啊，不要老是想着如何斗争，矛盾激化了对谁都没有好处。大家还记得王立山的案例吗？试试与他（她）多沟通，增进了解，做个朋友！

Dear "无耐",

I have been working for/with Asian Indian professors, bosses, co-workers in US for almost 20 years.
I don't think it's approperiate to say "印度人是我所见世界上最恶劣人种 ..." (please calm down if you really got hurt )
Yes. there are many "小人's" according to traditional Chinese standard, but overall speaking there are many good people as well.
I feel their culture is pretty much similar to Chinese culture. I found they are more often than not quite easy to communicate with.

I totally agree -- "心态问题啊，不要老是想着如何斗争，矛盾激化了对谁都没有好处。大家还记得王立山的案例吗？试试与他（她）多沟通，增进了解，做个朋友！" --- very well said !!

My understanding --- actually in some cases, We need to learn from them:
1.  They know how to deal with Westners (the white) much much better than us. Some of them are very skillful in this thing;  I think we Chinese have been isolated in eastern asia for too long;
2.  Some of them have very high English language skills -- even much higher than many Americans (in writting, college graduates).

Tips:
1. Don't got confused Pakistanies, Sri Lankans,  Bangols with Asian Indians. They may look  similar to us.  but usually are very different.  Pakistanies, Sri Lankans, Bangols are usualy much more friendly to Chinese;
2. India Subcontinent has been actually a huge racial-melting pot.  There are over 100 distinct races/cultures/languages there. I found Tamils and East Indians (formly belongs to Bangladesh) are easier to contact with (but I don't know why).  Not many "小人's" in Shiks and native Bangalorers (note: there are not many native Bangalorers left in nowadays Bangalore, city of Bangalore is now flooded by neighboring Talagues which compose of half of the IT resources in India --- the same thing as Beijing now: you can hardly meet a native Beijingnese in the city of Beijing on the street now). Guys from Mombay/Bombay are usually more talktive and with strong business sense.  Muslim are very different from the rest so that you can very easy to tell ...

All the above are from my own observations and experiences and from what several indian co-workers told me.

Chinese immigrants is a very outstanding ethnic group in this Country.  It has experienced quite long hardtime and met many hardships and It is still standing strong.
So let hatred go (if there is any).  Concentrate on your life, work, and family.  Smile to this Country and to this World.
We will Prevail.